Roses have thorns,
but we learn to be wary of them. As we hold a rose, sometimes unexpectedly
a thorn pierces our flesh and tiny drops of blood appear and we are wounded.
But we learn to handle this flower gently, carefully, so as to avoid the
sting of the thorns. Warily, we clasp the rose stem as we bring the beautiful
and fragrant blossom closer in order to scrutinize in detail this lovely
creation and to inhale its fragrance deeply.
So, too, it is with
our memories. There are sad ones that we skirt gingerly, as we handle the
thorny rose. There are bad ones that prick our thoughts and make our hearts
bleed anew. But as we learn to deal with those, just as we become used
to handling our rose, we can bring memories of good times and days and
years of past happiness more fully into our hearts. Thus, the most cherished
moments of the past become like the beauty of the rose – something to fill
us with a sense of wonder and feeling of thankfulness that God has given
us some very precious days in our lives, just as he graced the stem of
thorns with the radiant crown we call the rose.